Choosing Forgiveness: Letting Go of Anger, Bitterness, Resentment (Paperback) by Adam Phiri

How many times has someone done or said something that hurt you? Are you struggling to forgive and let go? Are you keeping a score card of past hurt? and just the mention of the offenders name drives you crazy? If you struggle to forgive, It is an indication that you still harbor resentment and carry the burden of bitterness, unprocessed anger and despite the desire to let go, you helplessly hang on to grudges with thoughts of revenge. If this describes you or someone you know.This book is a must read. Struggling to forgive is a battle we all fight. We are a generation that revels in keeping scores. It doesn't matter how old the hurt happened, people have sharp memories. This is a very loaded book which among other things, addresses the wounds of a talebearer-(gossip), if you have been a victim of rumors and gossip and your image has been tainted. How do you handle such wounds, how do you stop the gossip from chipping away at your reputation and how to heal the wound. Handling the anger that comes with being betrayed, maligned and rejected..Exposing the effects of gossip in marriage, church and community. This book is a much coveted resource which walks you through bitterness and resentment., it's dynamics and how to overcome it and let go of every habit and prison of bitterness. When someone you care about hurts you, you can hold on to anger, resentment and thoughts of revenge - or embrace forgiveness and move forward.this book seeks to give you practical guide for rising from the grip of anger, bitterness, resentment and holding grudges. It deals with how a Couple can handle offences and hurt in marriage, causes of offences and how to forgive the unforgivable, It also shines a light of the cycle of hurt and how to truncate it. A must read is the chapter that speaks about church hurt and gossip, how to handle hurt members, how to minister from a place of hurt, how to handle members at the verge of leaving your church or workplace. It deals with handling slander and gossip against the Pastor or leader. A must read for all who aspire to live a life above the maladies of hurt and live a life of forgiveness, freedom and release. This is a must read book.